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Xie Lian ([personal profile] cultivatingdisaster) wrote in [community profile] jikan_network2022-07-15 11:06 pm

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[Xie Lian is a little more understanding now of the ways of the magi-cam so this time when he uses it to talk to the people, he doesn't have it upside down and he doesn't drop it. In a smart move he's sat himself down, back against the trunk of a tree and the soft sound of pattering rain in the background.

He smiled for the camera, a kind and gentle smile, for he comes to you all with a question that has been on his mind today. Xie Lian isn't sure what reminded him of the date, but something did, it could have been a scent on the air or maybe a fleeting memory of a dream? Whatever the case is, he's here now.]


Hello! I hope I find everyone doing well today? As it seems to be raining, remember to wrap up warm! I'm sure I saw a store selling umbrellas...

[Aaaanyway, Xie Lian laughs to himself before moving on.]

I actually have a question.

I was wondering what birthday traditions everyone had. Since there are so many here from strange worlds, both past and future, whether personal or cultural, do you think you could share? I would be very interested to hear everyone's stories, if you have the time?
bythewaves: (Default)

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[personal profile] bythewaves 2022-07-16 03:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, my folk don't actually celebrate birthdays, but begetting days instead. [ Maglor hums ]

And in truth, we stop after the first century, when we come of age, except perhaps for those nearest and dearest.
bythewaves: (hm?)

[personal profile] bythewaves 2022-07-20 02:50 pm (UTC)(link)
The day our parents begat us. [ He shrugs a little, wryly ]

Children are... very deliberately intentional, amongst my folk - we do not conceive but that both parents wish it, and because the fea - the... spirit, the soul? of the child draws nourishment from the parents until well into early adulthood, we can tell when a child is begotten. Also, children are almost always carried for a full year, so the birth and begating day are all but identical, only a year apart.

[ He nods ]

Even so. I could not tell you how old I am exactly, and it has been a very long time since I bothered to celebrate my own begetting day!
bythewaves: (Arnold grin)

[personal profile] bythewaves 2022-07-22 07:41 am (UTC)(link)
[ Maglor chuckles ]

I suppose it must seem strange to someone not familiar with it. [ he agrees ] Either way, I don't bother to track for myself, but I think parties of some sort are fairly standard for most people?
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bythewaves: (Arnold smile)

[personal profile] bythewaves 2022-07-25 03:15 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, for a certainty. [ Maglor agrees ]

But I feel you undersell your world!

[ He nods ]

Parties, or at the least a small feast, perhaps, if the time and situations allow. I believe the Hobbits are particular fans of the feast component!
bythewaves: (Arnold grin)

[personal profile] bythewaves 2022-07-28 02:04 am (UTC)(link)
I like their attitudes towards life. [ Maglor says shamelessly ]

If more of us thought like them, perhaps, valuing food and cheer above wealth and power, I think it would be a better world.
bythewaves: (look up)

[personal profile] bythewaves 2022-08-03 11:20 am (UTC)(link)
I think so too. [ Maglor agrees fondly ]

One day, if we are fortunate, perhaps we will be able to meet them!
bythewaves: (alone)

[personal profile] bythewaves 2022-08-07 03:07 pm (UTC)(link)
I wonder if we will be allowed to return home and bring visitors? I think you'd really like the Shire, my friend.
bythewaves: (alone)

we might be able to end this one here?

[personal profile] bythewaves 2022-08-09 12:52 pm (UTC)(link)
And I would love to show you, my friend. Perhaps one day we will be able to do so!
sanguinehunger: (â™° 063)

[personal profile] sanguinehunger 2022-07-16 09:27 pm (UTC)(link)
[ Hello stranger, feel honored, you're the first contestent on Astarion Tries To Be Social. ]

To be honest, I didn't know such things were common in other worlds until a little over a year ago. My own people mark no such celebrations on the day of our birth. Even the humans of Faerun make very little fuss over it, and they get so few of them.

A...friend, of mine in my previous home did so enjoy baking cakes for the birthdays of those close to him. And acquaintances. And...to be frank, perfect strangers. He quite enjoyed making cakes.
sanguinehunger: (â™° 009)

[personal profile] sanguinehunger 2022-07-17 03:30 am (UTC)(link)
You know, I don't know that they fey had similar celebrations, I never asked. As I said, my friend simply enjoyed making them. And doing...nice things for people. [Ugh. Insufferable.]

It was, as I understand it, whatever sort of cake the one being celebrated enjoyed. And rather overly decorated, but that's a personal opinion.
sanguinehunger: (â™° 004)

[personal profile] sanguinehunger 2022-07-22 09:23 pm (UTC)(link)
You're quite welcome, darling. [ Said in the same sort of casual way someone might say 'friend' or 'pal' or 'dude.' ]

I don't think I caught your name. I'm Astarion.
sanguinehunger: (â™° 028)

[personal profile] sanguinehunger 2022-07-27 07:47 pm (UTC)(link)
[ Entirely possible! For Astarion it means many things--from friendly to genuine endearment to condescension, depending on his tone. ]

Xie Lian? [ He paused with raised eyebrows, just to make certain he'd repeated and pronounced it correctly. ] A pleasure. Think nothing of it. We're all of us strangers in a strange land. From a variety of strange lands ourselves, at that.
sanguinehunger: (â™° 031)

[personal profile] sanguinehunger 2022-08-02 10:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Aaaah, you've a curious mind. [ His lady is much the same, the scholarly sort. So you know, he gets it. ] I'm happy to answer questions you may have, darling, should any other curiosities flit through your mind.
smilingarmor: (Confident)

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[personal profile] smilingarmor 2022-07-19 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
Oh? Any particular reason you're asking?

[Because Sylv has some suspicions.]
smilingarmor: (Just what I always wanted)

[personal profile] smilingarmor 2022-08-15 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
Ooh, happy birthday then, darling! I'll have to remember the date for next year, if we're both still here then.

As for traditions, some people have parties, but I've found that usually stops as a person gets a bit older, aside from important milestones. Many people get gifts from their friends too, though that tends to require knowing the date in advance.

As for myself, I like to go out for a special meal, or buy myself something that I've had my eye on for awhile. Maybe even spend a day at a spa, if I can. It never hurts to paper yourself a bit after all!
smilingarmor: (Confident)

[personal profile] smilingarmor 2022-09-05 06:35 am (UTC)(link)
Oh come now, you're never too old to pamper yourself, darling.

But still a good meal is always a wonderful idea. What sort of food are you thinking, hmm? I always enjoy good seafood myself.
smilingarmor: (Just what I always wanted)

[personal profile] smilingarmor 2022-10-13 06:35 am (UTC)(link)
I'd love too, honey! Though really, I should be the one treating you, since it's your birthday. Where would you like to meet up?
song_princess: (At peace in the sky)

[personal profile] song_princess 2022-07-22 02:19 am (UTC)(link)
I don't remember any traditions, my apologies my lord. Might I be bold to ask why?
song_princess: (Happy Smile)

[personal profile] song_princess 2022-07-27 10:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Are you sure my lord?

[She then blinks and couldn't help but to perk up a little.]

Ah, happy day of your birth, my lord. Thank you for being born.

[And okay, normally she will tell why but no, no she won't ruin this day for him.]

Does my lord like tea? Any particular flavors if he does?
song_princess: (Dancer)

[personal profile] song_princess 2022-08-02 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
[She smiles before letting out a soft chuckle.]

Osmanthus tea? I will try then to make you a blend that you will like as much.

[She then goes to blush a little.]

It isn't much and it would be okay to say no...
song_princess: (Inviting 2)

[personal profile] song_princess 2022-08-11 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Because my lord doesn't know this one. The honor would be mine.

[She smiles back her own warm and gentle smile.]

Then, I shall go and try to create your tea. I shall pray that you will like it.
song_princess: (Blind as a~)

[personal profile] song_princess 2022-08-15 05:58 pm (UTC)(link)
It is an honor that you wish to know this one.

Ah, wouldn't you prefer to share it with something else.
song_princess: (Are you sure?)

[personal profile] song_princess 2022-08-26 02:31 pm (UTC)(link)
.... Are you sure?

[She still doesn't see herself as having others desire her company. Especially not a stranger.]

I guess.... Shall I bring some snacks with me?
song_princess: (Calm)

[personal profile] song_princess 2022-09-07 08:28 pm (UTC)(link)
[That was true and perhaps it would the be the goddess's will that among these strangers more strong bonds will be formed.]

I shall bring something of my childhood then. It may take me a bit but I shall send you another message once I am on my way.