Xie Lian (
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[Xie Lian is a little more understanding now of the ways of the magi-cam so this time when he uses it to talk to the people, he doesn't have it upside down and he doesn't drop it. In a smart move he's sat himself down, back against the trunk of a tree and the soft sound of pattering rain in the background.
He smiled for the camera, a kind and gentle smile, for he comes to you all with a question that has been on his mind today. Xie Lian isn't sure what reminded him of the date, but something did, it could have been a scent on the air or maybe a fleeting memory of a dream? Whatever the case is, he's here now.]
Hello! I hope I find everyone doing well today? As it seems to be raining, remember to wrap up warm! I'm sure I saw a store selling umbrellas...
[Aaaanyway, Xie Lian laughs to himself before moving on.]
I actually have a question.
I was wondering what birthday traditions everyone had. Since there are so many here from strange worlds, both past and future, whether personal or cultural, do you think you could share? I would be very interested to hear everyone's stories, if you have the time?
He smiled for the camera, a kind and gentle smile, for he comes to you all with a question that has been on his mind today. Xie Lian isn't sure what reminded him of the date, but something did, it could have been a scent on the air or maybe a fleeting memory of a dream? Whatever the case is, he's here now.]
Hello! I hope I find everyone doing well today? As it seems to be raining, remember to wrap up warm! I'm sure I saw a store selling umbrellas...
[Aaaanyway, Xie Lian laughs to himself before moving on.]
I actually have a question.
I was wondering what birthday traditions everyone had. Since there are so many here from strange worlds, both past and future, whether personal or cultural, do you think you could share? I would be very interested to hear everyone's stories, if you have the time?
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And in truth, we stop after the first century, when we come of age, except perhaps for those nearest and dearest.
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Begetting days? And those are...
In truth birthdays don't mean much to my people either, aside from when your are a small child or much older. There are milestones of course. [But...] When you are long lived birthdays don't seem as important.
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Children are... very deliberately intentional, amongst my folk - we do not conceive but that both parents wish it, and because the fea - the... spirit, the soul? of the child draws nourishment from the parents until well into early adulthood, we can tell when a child is begotten. Also, children are almost always carried for a full year, so the birth and begating day are all but identical, only a year apart.
[ He nods ]
Even so. I could not tell you how old I am exactly, and it has been a very long time since I bothered to celebrate my own begetting day!
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At least for a half second. Then he just kind of... stared. Because he truly had no idea what he had just been told. Children were not conceived but wished into existence? But carried for a year and... their birth was different to begetting? Maybe his context was wrong and he really didn't understand what had been meant.
Other worlds were strange indeed.]
I am completely lost. [Xie Lian laughed, having no shame in admitting to such a thing.] But it is fascinating nevertheless!
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I suppose it must seem strange to someone not familiar with it. [ he agrees ] Either way, I don't bother to track for myself, but I think parties of some sort are fairly standard for most people?
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[As was his life, really. Who wanted to know about the travels of a scrap god?]
Parties? Really? Gatherings are common when we are children though in later years... In truth I don't bother to track the years myself.
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But I feel you undersell your world!
[ He nods ]
Parties, or at the least a small feast, perhaps, if the time and situations allow. I believe the Hobbits are particular fans of the feast component!
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The Hobbits again, ah? Any excuse for a party. [A small laugh.] Well thank you, Maglor gongzi. I feel like I understand a little more now.
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If more of us thought like them, perhaps, valuing food and cheer above wealth and power, I think it would be a better world.
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[From what he had heard of them at least. It made him want to meet them, just to bask in their warmth for just a few moments.]
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One day, if we are fortunate, perhaps we will be able to meet them!
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[Because who knew when this world would send him back to his own? Who knew when it would send any of them back?]
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we might be able to end this one here?
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To be honest, I didn't know such things were common in other worlds until a little over a year ago. My own people mark no such celebrations on the day of our birth. Even the humans of Faerun make very little fuss over it, and they get so few of them.
A...friend, of mine in my previous home did so enjoy baking cakes for the birthdays of those close to him. And acquaintances. And...to be frank, perfect strangers. He quite enjoyed making cakes.
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I see. And cake is something that is common to your previous home? Is it a particular cake?
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It was, as I understand it, whatever sort of cake the one being celebrated enjoyed. And rather overly decorated, but that's a personal opinion.
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[Xie Lian looks thoughtful. He supposed in a way he could understand celebrating with a sweet treat, but it also seemed an extravagance that was unnecessary. But he also supposed that it would depend on the culture and the people. This man's friend enjoyed baking so that was how they celebrated. It was simple but effective.]
Thank you for your insight!
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I don't think I caught your name. I'm Astarion.
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[The 'darling' washed over him, he had another friend who used the same word in the same way. Xie Lian was beginning to believe it meant something entirely different in other worlds!
As he spoke his name, he inclined his head in a little bow, not an easy thing when sat down, but he made it look effortless.]
I appreciate you anwering my strange question, Astarion gongzi.
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Xie Lian? [ He paused with raised eyebrows, just to make certain he'd repeated and pronounced it correctly. ] A pleasure. Think nothing of it. We're all of us strangers in a strange land. From a variety of strange lands ourselves, at that.
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You're correct and we are. I find it fascinating to learn about the worlds of others. Especially how traditions differ from one to the next.
[Though the last time he remembered asking he had been met with some resistance and suspicion. But he could understand why that would be.]
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[A chuckle and a smile followed by an incline of his head, a nod of understanding.]
Thank you. I'll remember your kindness.
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[Because Sylv has some suspicions.]
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[Xie Lian's smile is an easy one. He has no problem admitting it's his birthday, to him it doesn't have much meaning, which was why he was wondering about the birthdays of others.]
Do you have any traditions you celebrate?
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As for traditions, some people have parties, but I've found that usually stops as a person gets a bit older, aside from important milestones. Many people get gifts from their friends too, though that tends to require knowing the date in advance.
As for myself, I like to go out for a special meal, or buy myself something that I've had my eye on for awhile. Maybe even spend a day at a spa, if I can. It never hurts to paper yourself a bit after all!
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[His smile warms. Though he didn't know about whether he would be here a year from now, who knew though? Stranger things had happened.]
I think I am a little too old now for parties... and pampering myself. Though maybe a nice meal to mark the day wouldn't go amiss?
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But still a good meal is always a wonderful idea. What sort of food are you thinking, hmm? I always enjoy good seafood myself.
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Would you like to have a meal with me, Sylvando? My treat.
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[Xie Lian is quick to reassure. He'd asked a question not made a demand, so it was just fine not to have an answer for him.]
Well that. As I remembered it was my own birthday, I started to wonder about how others celebrated theirs.
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[She then blinks and couldn't help but to perk up a little.]
Ah, happy day of your birth, my lord. Thank you for being born.
[And okay, normally she will tell why but no, no she won't ruin this day for him.]
Does my lord like tea? Any particular flavors if he does?
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Thank you.
Tea? Osmanthus tea is one I enjoy. But I have yet to find a tea I haven't enjoyed.
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Osmanthus tea? I will try then to make you a blend that you will like as much.
[She then goes to blush a little.]
It isn't much and it would be okay to say no...
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[His smile is still gentle and warm, reassuring in it's kindness.]
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[She smiles back her own warm and gentle smile.]
Then, I shall go and try to create your tea. I shall pray that you will like it.
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And please, let me know when it's finished. I'll be sure to enjoy a cup with you!
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Ah, wouldn't you prefer to share it with something else.
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[Xie Lian didn't know many people. Definiately not enough to make a call to join him for tea. And if Leanne was going to such an effort for him, it only made sense for him to share with her!]
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[She still doesn't see herself as having others desire her company. Especially not a stranger.]
I guess.... Shall I bring some snacks with me?
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He smiled, kind and happy.]
I am very sure. And please? I can also buy snacks and we can properly enjoy the tea you make.
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I shall bring something of my childhood then. It may take me a bit but I shall send you another message once I am on my way.
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Again, thank you, Leanne.
[Taking the time for him, going to such efforts, Xie Lian didn't feel he was worthy of it but he also wouldn't be rude enough to tell he she should stop. No, if she was going to this much effort the very least he could do would be to enjoy it and share it with her. And now he was actually looking forward to it! Tea with a new friend, what wasn't there to be excited about?
Before he closed the feed, he gave her another of those bright smiles and bid her farewell. The feed closed and soon after a message came through to Leanne with directions to his humble little shine.]