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[jasidian]

How do you cope with a partner who isn't here when you're fairly certain you never clarified whether or not they were alright with you having other partners on the side?

I haven't actually done anything; I'm just terribly lonely and there's only so much my hand can do for me.

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[getstoned]

bro you’re gonna run yourself raw js

I highly doubt your partner would want you to do that, imagine how they’d feel suddenly coming here and finding out all that’s left is hamburger

that is to say, if they arrive and you explain things I’m sure they’d be understanding

[jasidian]

It's... complicated, I guess.

I really hate the idea of just assuming I know how they'd take it without actually having asked her on the matter.

I'm not entirely comfortable with sleeping with someone unless there's some kind of emotional connection there, so that presents its own complications.

[getstoned]

hmm... this is interesting. let's try to run a scenario here.

so let's say your wife is in this situation right, just her alone no you around. how would you feel if she was feeling tortured because she absolutely had to get off, but like the hand action wasn't quite cutting it.

would you be upset if she sought some cock for much needed relief?

[jasidian]

Yes, I would.

I'd still be okay with her doing it in that situation and I'd do my best not to hold it against her, but as I said, we haven't really discussed this.

But I would absolutely be upset.

[Not directed towards her, just in general.]

[getstoned]

bro, sounds rough
I’m not married, but I’ve betrayed by a partner I was in love with
So I respect you wanting to be loyal

With that said, I have no idea of what else you can do
Like we could chat together if you find yourself needing some conversation

Meanwhile maybe try warming up a melon and making a hole to use that instead of your hand. You might now chafe as much

[jasidian]

Isn't that an infection waiting to happen?