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[jasidian]

How do you cope with a partner who isn't here when you're fairly certain you never clarified whether or not they were alright with you having other partners on the side?

I haven't actually done anything; I'm just terribly lonely and there's only so much my hand can do for me.

Comments

un: juliet

[brightred]

What they don't know can't hurt them~

un: sunkissed

[sweet_malanore]

Oh, you poor thing!

I would presume that your partner would not wish you to be pent up. I know if I were away from someone I cared about, I wouldn't ask them to be celibate for my sake. Especially considering my line of work.

Why not try a partner you don't need to touch?

un: 333

[holeful]

Have you tried toys?

[Hello it is time to Miss The Point.]

[getstoned]

bro you’re gonna run yourself raw js

I highly doubt your partner would want you to do that, imagine how they’d feel suddenly coming here and finding out all that’s left is hamburger

that is to say, if they arrive and you explain things I’m sure they’d be understanding

[jasidian]

is a toy going to cuddle with me when it's over

Re: un: sunkissed

[jasidian]

I'm not entirely sure I see that making much of a difference.

I don't want to be difficult, but I hope you understand.

[jasidian]

It's... complicated, I guess.

I really hate the idea of just assuming I know how they'd take it without actually having asked her on the matter.

I'm not entirely comfortable with sleeping with someone unless there's some kind of emotional connection there, so that presents its own complications.

[jasidian]

No. I am absolutely not going to do that to her after all she's had to deal with.

[sweet_malanore]

Oh, dear, you're not being difficult at all! I understand entirely. If you know your partner wouldn't want you to suffer in this way, why not make an arrangement with someone you get to know here? Sort of a "we are not together, but we are friendly and enjoy sex with one another"?

[brightred]

You already know you don't want to be loyal to her.

Will she be more angry with you if you do something now, or wait until she arrives to tell her you've been hoping for months she'll let you sleep with a long list of people?

[jasidian]

Here's the problem, she's the understanding sort, but I really don't know whether or not this is a bridge too far.

And besides, even if she doesn’t know, I'd know.

Either way, it's probably going to take a while for me to come to a decision on the matter.

[sweet_malanore]

Well, there is certainly no rush, and kizuna can be performed between platonic bonds as well, I'm told. But if you do find yourself in an impossible situation, I am happy to help. It is my preferred job to saving the world, after all.

[jasidian]

I'm going to be honest here.

The number of replies I've gotten telling me it's fine have really not been what I'm looking for. It's... even if they're probably right, I still can't.

I'm not sure what I WANT, even.

[jasidian]

You seem like a lovely person and I appreciate the offer, but the more I think about this the more I think it's less about my own sexual frustrations and more that I really just miss her a lot.

[brightred]

In a place like this, what were you expecting? No one's being held back by the morals of their society, it's an orgy of indulgence without thinking of the consequences!

[jasidian]

I'm not going to judge other people for how they want to live their lives, but I think in my case this is less about what society says and more about my own personal boundaries.

Which I'm still figuring out.

[holeful]

[Oh. He sees where he's made an error.]

Ah. Well you mentioned using your hand, so I thought...

Anyway, if you just want to cuddle couldn't you do something like that with a friend?

[brightred]

I can't WAIT to see what happens to you here~

[getstoned]

hmm... this is interesting. let's try to run a scenario here.

so let's say your wife is in this situation right, just her alone no you around. how would you feel if she was feeling tortured because she absolutely had to get off, but like the hand action wasn't quite cutting it.

would you be upset if she sought some cock for much needed relief?

[jasidian]

Yes, I would.

I'd still be okay with her doing it in that situation and I'd do my best not to hold it against her, but as I said, we haven't really discussed this.

But I would absolutely be upset.

[Not directed towards her, just in general.]

[jasidian]

Somehow I never considered this.

[jasidian]

Brace yourself for disappointment, I suppose.

[holeful]

Haha, then hopefully I was helpful! Something like that sounds nice, actually... Something like just sitting on the couch cozied up under a blanket with someone you trust.

[jasidian]

I admit I never thought to try this with my friends back home.

It always seemed like I'd be crossing boundaries?

But it does seem nice...

[holeful]

Hm. Maybe it would be? I've never had good friends before, as far as I can remember.

[jasidian]

I hadn't either, not until recently.

So I just...didn't know that was something friends could do?

[holeful]

I mean as long as you're not kissing or anything beyond that it should be fine probably... I mean, people hug their friends don't they?

[getstoned]

bro, sounds rough
I’m not married, but I’ve betrayed by a partner I was in love with
So I respect you wanting to be loyal

With that said, I have no idea of what else you can do
Like we could chat together if you find yourself needing some conversation

Meanwhile maybe try warming up a melon and making a hole to use that instead of your hand. You might now chafe as much

[jasidian]

I don't think I actually know if this is correct.

[jasidian]

Isn't that an infection waiting to happen?

[holeful]

I'm pretty sure it is. I mean if sports players can hug their teammates surely hugging your friends is fine.

[jasidian]

I'll be sure to remember that!

...although none of my friends are here.

[holeful]

I'll be your friend if you want? My name's Fukuda.

[jasidian]

I'm Klaus.

I know, not particularly surprising, I haven't been able to come up with another name to use on this device.

But I'll be your friend, sure.

[holeful]

Great!!

Oh, by the way, are you a skeleton? The last person I became friends with over text was so I want to make sure.



Not that it's a problem, I just like to have an accurate mental image.

[jasidian]

I'm an orc.

I have a skeleton inside of my body?

[holeful]

[It's a shame this is text so Klaus can't see how excited this makes Fukuda.]

An orc??? Well that's just as cool as a skeleton I think!! I've never met an orc before either!

[jasidian]

We tend not to be that common outside of certain places, I think.

[holeful]

Well they’re fictional where I’m from! But quite popular in fantasy novels. They’re usually not nearly as polite as you, though.

[jasidian]

I'm sorry, what?

[ Both the fictional thing and the accidental racism. ]

[holeful]

Oh, I mean obviously you're not fictional... Really the name could actually be a complete coincidence and your race might be nothing like the ones in books! They tend to be sort of generic bad guys in a lot of fantasy media.

[jasidian]

...I'm honestly not surprised. I'm used to some rather unflattering depictions and...

well. You do get used to it after a bit.